Getting through the holidays with ease thanks to PMR
The holidays are just around the corner, and with them often come stress, endless to-do lists and the chase for perfection. It is precisely in moments like these that it is important to pause and treat yourself to a little break. A proven method to reduce stress and reconnect with yourself is – alongside training and other relaxation techniques – progressive muscle relaxation (PMR). But what exactly is PMR, how does it work and how can you best integrate it into your everyday life? You'll find out here!
What is progressive muscle relaxation (PMR)?
Progressive muscle relaxation, also known as Jacobson's relaxation, is a relaxation technique developed by the US-American physician Edmund Jacobson in the 1920s. Jacobson found that there is a close connection between physical tension and mental stress. His goal was to give people a simple and effective method to reduce stress and find inner calm.
At its core, PMR is based on deliberately tensing individual muscle groups and then consciously relaxing them. This interplay between tension and relaxation helps to release physical and mental tension and to boost your overall well-being.
Why PMR – and what does it do?
Whether in stressful everyday situations, in cases of sleep problems or as part of a healthy lifestyle, PMR offers numerous benefits:
- Reducing stress: Conscious relaxation helps to calm the mind and wind down the nervous system.
- Better sleep: Thanks to PMR, it becomes easier to fall asleep and to sleep restfully.
- Pain relief: Studies show that PMR can also help with tension headaches and chronic pain.
- More mindfulness: You learn to listen more closely to your body and to spot tension early.
Who is progressive muscle relaxation suitable for?
The best thing about PMR? Anyone can do it! Whether you're a beginner or already have experience with relaxation techniques, PMR is easy to learn and requires no special prior knowledge. It is particularly helpful for people who:
- are often under stress in everyday life,
- suffer from sleep problems,
- have muscle tension or pain,
- simply want to unwind and relax.
How does progressive muscle relaxation work?
The method is simple and can be practised practically anywhere – at home, at the office or even on the train. A typical PMR sequence looks like this:
- Make yourself comfortable: Sit down in a relaxed position or lie down. Make sure you won't be disturbed.
- Breathe deeply: Close your eyes and take a few deep breaths.
- Tense the muscle groups: Start with one muscle group, e.g. the hands. Tense the muscles for 5 to 10 seconds – not too hard, in order to avoid pain.
- Let go: Relax the muscles and consciously notice how the relaxation feels.
- Move on to the next group: Work your way systematically through the body – from the feet up to the head.
The whole thing takes about 10 to 20 minutes, depending on your pace, the number of muscle groups you tense and relax and your level of focus.

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Tips for your PMR practice
- Consistency pays off: Start with 2 to 3 sessions per week, ideally at fixed times.
- Create a feel-good atmosphere: Dim the lights, light a candle or put on some gentle music.
- Use guided instructions: Especially for beginners, guided PMR audios are helpful to get into the flow.
- Stay patient: It can take a little while before you have fully internalised the method.
When and where can you practise PMR?
PMR is so flexible that you can practise it practically anytime and anywhere. Here are a few ideas:
- In the morning: Start the day relaxed by taking 10 minutes for PMR.
- During your lunch break: Perfect for recharging your energy for the afternoon.
- In the evening before sleep: Helps you leave the day behind and fall asleep more easily.
- In stressful moments: Even a short PMR session can work wonders – e.g. before an important appointment.
Interesting facts about PMR
- PMR is a recognised relaxation method in many countries and is often used in psychotherapy.
- Scientific studies confirm the effectiveness of PMR in cases of anxiety disorders and depression.
- The method can also be combined with other techniques such as breathing exercises or meditation.
FAQs on progressive muscle relaxation
- How often should I do PMR? Ideally 2 to 3 times a week. If needed, you can also fit it in more often.
- Do I need any equipment for PMR? No, just yourself and a quiet place. Optionally, you can use a blanket or a cushion.
- Can PMR have side effects? No, the method is safe. However, if you feel pain when tensing the muscles, skip the exercise.
Conclusion: give yourself the break you deserve
Progressive muscle relaxation is like a little mini-holiday for your body and mind – and best of all: it's possible anytime and anywhere. Especially during the stressful Christmas season, PMR can help you find more calm and composure again. So, what are you waiting for? Just give it a try!



